Is this train in trouble...

So what would you say to someone who tells you that his partner calling to say he is coming home early made him disappointed in side that he was not going to have time to chat with his friends on the computer or watch television in peace? Would tell them that his may be a problem in the relationship?

What if your friend told you that he felt like his partner was intruding when he was trying to talk to his friends online and surf the web, even if there was nothing to hide? Would tell them that his may be a problem in the relationship?

What do you tell a friend who feels that his life with his partner is a weight on his shoulders as opposed to a wind beneath wings type of thing? Would tell them that his may be a problem in the relationship?

In the end defines a functional relationship? If you know, please let me know.